Isn’t it wonderful, the person who says “I hate you” to you, if start saying “I love you”?

You can do the following things to turn anybody’s hate into unconditional love.

Step.1

Ask forgiveness
You must ask forgiveness to him; there are two ways to do this – whether ask directly or visualize him in front of you and then ask.

Step.2

Send him unconditional love
Start sending unconditional love to him, whenever in the day you feel at high energy level. Or calm down yourself, think clearly about him and then start sending.

Step.3

Praise about him
Just praise about the real good habits of him, never praise what he hasn’t – otherwise it may be a flattery and cause irritation to that person.

Step.4

Do good things for him, without letting him know
You can help him indirect way, but he shouldn’t know promptly that you did it. If he knows after sometime it’s okay.

Step.5

Leave one bad habit of yours for his name
You can choose any small bad habit; if you think about leaving tobacco or liquor then it will be great. But you can also think about those habits which cause you the real problem in life.

Step.6

Pray for him
Pray to God for his mind, soul and body. Pray should come from your heart, no matter from where you pray for him.

Step.7

Feed a needful on his name
If you don’t find someone nearby to feed, you can also donate a small amount of money to some orphanage.

Step.8

Be at a distance
Don’t try to approach him very soon, be at a distance. But always keep your gestures and expression receptive if he accidentally meets you somewhere.

Step.9

Don’t be crazy about him
Being crazy actually causes a lot of problem. Understand this: when you start depending on other, other starts manipulating you. So better is that control yourself, it will also stop you to take crazy actions.

Step.10

Don’t dramatize what you are doing for him
Never ever spread the information, whatever you are doing for him. Because you are not doing any marketing to show off something; you are doing by the heart and for the real good concern.

Step.11

Now, wait and watch
You have made considerate satisfied efforts, doing all the good things which you ever could do. Most probably his energy level might have changed for you (even if he doesn’t say from his mouth), and he would have started emitting the same energy of unconditional love for you as you have for him.