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At certain age most of the people start dreaming and searching for life partner. Well, searching for superior things or people is natural.

One truth to understand is that, any person can’t get more than s/he deserves. If you see big dreams, it is better to increase your deserving qualities.

I would like to suggest following things to ponder upon to the people who find short cut ways to attract life partner –

1. Role of Karma, it’s undeniable

Believe it or not, relationships are built to pay off each other dues and to learn the lessons from each other. Until one learns the lessons from other person or from the incident of life, that person or incident will keep on occurring in life. Rules of nature are very simple, nature makes us learned the entire lessons step by step; when all lessons are learned, then nature says ‘now you can create what you want’.

2. Visible versus invisible appearance

If choice for a life partner is just based on visible appearance of body, power and money; overlooking invisible appearances – you are going to make a big mistake. I wonder most of the people only fall in love with beautiful girl or handsome guy; what about average looking girl/boy with solid character and strong values?

Invisible appearance is manifested in enduring qualities of practicing and finding the ways of one’s own evolution. Filling stomach and controlling people is not enough for life.

3. What you deserve?

May be you deserve better life partner than you are looking for now-a-days!  May be your dreams are unpractical! Do you really know what you deserve? Let your inner-voice speak, it will let you know everything. Don’t charge like a mad elephant to your soul, listen to it.

4. End goal of relationship

To decide the end goal of a relationship is very important. I don’t think that relationships are just for time pass or time waste. Decide what kind of physical, emotional, material, and spiritual aspects – a relationship has to give, and what you need the most in your life.

5. What you have, to give?

You cannot get, until you wish to give. Everything is reciprocal, just count down the needed quality that a relationship needs. There is no place for beggars anywhere.

6. Is it your ego to understand people like things?

You love a beautiful car; you buy it, ride on it and enjoy it. But you can’t enjoy a relationship this way. Even most of the people are attracted by money and power, but they also understand somewhere within – it isn’t going to be the meaning of life. Any relationship based on ego never works, ego can’t enjoy and celebrate, it can only manipulate and devastate.