Sometimes, it’s hard to make everyone happy; when we try it, and get failures, we feel that we are losing ourselves. No matter how much good we are, or how many good things we do, some people are bound to jealous and complain.
We can’t make everyone happy. If you have ever tried in life or trying now to make everyone happy…check if you are getting success in it. Everyone connotes everyone, i.e., family, friends, relatives, neighbors, office colleagues, servants, shopkeepers, salesman…lots of people come.
Guilt comes
When we fail to make everyone happy, we feel that we have some problems and feel guilty, but this is not the solution.
When two people start doing bad things — Ravan is created. It’s an invisible Demon, does much havoc in life. And if you don’t know its roots, the life from there it gets so much energy – you can’t avoid it, and it will torture your life, and will laugh over your pains.
The old story of Ravan is on gross (physical) form, where Ravan is a character, has ten heads, full of scriptures knowledge but does the bad things in excess, e.g., sex, killing, anger, greed, and lots more. In India, every year, people make a big Ravan, put some fire crackers inside it and make it fire. This is just a story and entertainment. About real Ravan I tell you…
How about a Meditation which gives the highest ecstasy, no side affects and free of cost? And, you needn’t answer to anybody why are you doing this? When you do Meditation, all the Drugs will be left.
Don’t believe this!
I know how much you are worried about leaving your Drug habits. Many times you made promises and many times they broke…many times you saved money for other life’s purposes and many times you spent that money in Drugs
I’m not a Drug expert, nor do I take Drugs. But, I can understand the problem a Drug addict goes into. And I pray to God to set all the things on track.
Leaving Drugs from Meditation.
Sometimes, a spiritual Guru or a spiritual book says look inside, world is inside you, even whole universe is inside you and what is inside is outside also. Did you get the point?
It is true that what is outside is inside and what is inside is outside.
God says "Whatever you think and feel, its vibrations start spreading in the people and in the atmosphere."
Understand it, give it time…whatever we think and feel start manifesting outside. Because our thinking and feelings create vibrations, and the whole world, the whole universe is made up of vibrations.
It never mean we are bigger inside or when we look inside all the universe come into us; the world and universe both are used for feelings and thinking (call them emotions and intentions also).
Somebody asked me “Is spirituality possible without a Guru?” I asked “What do you mean by a Guru?” He remained silent and then spoke that Guru is one, who shows the way to God, he further spoke that there are so many Gurus and so many ways reaching to God; is God too hard to get? I asked “Who told you God is hard to get?” He said “Gurus told so.” I asked “Who told Gurus?” He said “I don’t know.”
I said “Why don’t you believe that ‘you don’t know’ and start exploring yourself?”
He said “It is risky and I’ve a wife, children and lots of responsibilities, I need short-cuts, what I can give is money and little time else I have nothing to give.”
I said “If I tell you something, would you believe?”
He said “let’s see!”
And I continued…
“There was a time, when people were God like, it was called Golden Age, a heaven, everyone aspires for and wants to live there. Golden age was at this Earth, where you are living now, everything was based on purity, not even 99% purity; it was 100% purity. Years passed, times changed people fallen down from purity, there was no name of God anywhere, but people knew their ancestors were 100% pure, they started worshipping them, hundreds and thousands of God have been created, and their faith in ancestors started giving them peace of mind. The people who started worshipping ancestors first were known as the greatest Gurus, and this trend is still today.”
He said “I don’t believe you.”
Girls please don’t read it. I’m just talking to guys and their parents. I had to open my eyes many times when somebody told me these facts; of course, she was a girl, and she told me what she and some of her friends think about a boy-friend and a husband.
I know, this mayn’t be true in everyone case, there is every kind of people in this world; but it is better to have a look at certain facts.
| Boy-friend | Husband |
| 1. Look & Feel | 1. Money (most important) |
| 2. Witty | 2. Family-background |
| 3. Money | 3. Qualification |
| 4. Education (it matters the least) | 4. Look & Feel |
| 5. Family-background (doesn’t matter at all) | 5. Witty (matters the least) |
Well, I’m not agree. But, things draw our attention somewhere that things needed to make a good relationships look no-where in both the cases. I don’t understand why people forget trust, values and purity that are far important in any relationship?
If we don’t know what is a diamond and what are other jewels, then it is hard to make the "treasure." Divine qualities are like jewels, we each must know to have them in life. We are talking about 8 divine qualities this time.
Fearlessness: the more a person starts believing in God, more fearlessness he starts having, because now he is connected with great power which is God Himself. One who is connected with God needn’t to fear anything.
Introversion: it is the quality of introspection, our outer behavior is driven from inner side, and without introversion life will be like a car which doesn’t have a driver to give direction. Introversion gives the direction and stamina to outer behavior.
Patience: it means not to make haste, and leaving everything to God. But, it never means not to do anything. It comes when a person starts living positive and think that whatever will happen will be in his best interest.
Sweetness: it is the quality of speaking soft and sweet to others by the voice and by the expression. This quality pleases everyone; speaking soft means whatever we speak the words shouldn’t look harsh to others. Whatever quality of voice we have, it is a God gift we can’t change it, but we can use mild and meaningful words with our voice and expression.
Just catch the tongue straight…
One talks to one person
Once upon a time, a boy and a girl were talking over phone; they were just friends, formal friends. Boy was telling her that he is at new place today and everything is awesome. “I can feel through you” replied the girl.
Times passed, few months gone while favoring each other online and offline. “I’m feeling attracted to you” told the boy. “I’m feeling this since months” declared the girl. “Do you love me?” asked the boy. “No,” confirmed the girl.
One talks to many people
…because it was the habit of the girl to do favor for friends (indeed, it is good), and to speak almost same with everyone (it isn’t good).
What is sleight of tongue?
Let’s land straight to our worlds…
Souls live most of the time in the first and the last world, in middle world not all the souls live; the middle world is the place where God comes from the last world and meet the souls (which are in astral bodies) which come from first world.
Don’t get confused…
The first world is the Earth plane, the second world is the Astral plane, and the third world is called God’s home. Yes, souls also live in God’s home.
Earth plane
The time cycle of Earth plane is of 5000 years, in which the 4 Ages (Golden Age, Silver Age, Copper Age and Iron Age) come, and each age is of 1250 years. Souls live at the Earth plane where quality of life is divided according to the 4 Ages. Golden Age is the time of high quality of life, and quality of life decreases in consecutive Ages, Iron Age is worst period for quality of life.
Astral plane
And you started looking for solution in online forums, blogs, experts’ tips & advices, and from your close friends. And you just found momentarily release of emotions, but the condition remained status-quo; relationship got failed.
You never thought about core elements, those make not only love-relationship but every relationship in the world. If those elements are missing, it is impossible to make a good relationship; you will just use and misuse each other.
In any new (or old) relationship we see the level of communication (words only), look & feel, education and money; of course, they are needed, to feel good and live good – but they are not the main foundation of a better relationship.