Each of us has unique ways to make our unique parents happy. And, ways are so unique, hardly an outsider gets to know what’s going on between parents and children. I don’t know what your ways are to make your parents happy (…want to know for sure) but I can suggest you few more extra things which can make your parents more proud on you.
Have good friends: all parents like to see good friends around their children, no one like bad company; so, be wiser in choosing your friends. Whatever types your friends would be, their vibrations would reach to your parents through you. Always make good choices in making good friends.
Kick off bad girl-friend or boy-friend: this is worst situation parents have to deal with, when they see their son or daughter is mad about some %#%#%%# (I don’t know what to say). I don’t say they are bad, but make good choices and good distances to avoid unnecessary issues.
Do meditation: it is not a fashion, as most of the people think these days; it keeps the mind, emotions and body healthy. Do it, parents feel happy watching children doing good things.
Read spiritual books sometimes: if you can spend money in watching brand new movies, then why not someday purchase some good spiritual books and invest some time sometimes to take good insight what our ancestors have written in those books.
Hug your parents: whenever you feel lack of energy just hug your parents, you will be fully charged, and in case when your parents feel low then also hug them.
Fight for good things: without fighting with parents no joy comes, fight and fight but remember for good things – parents like it.
Try to have lunch and dinner with them: if you can’t do it regularly do at least few times in a week, eating together with parents is the real joy.
Take care of your physical, emotional and mentally health: when we feel happy parents also feel happy, this is the thing they want the most. It is better to remain physically, emotionally and mentally fit for ours and parents happiness.
Understand parents by expressions and feelings: this is the language of real relations, words are for strangers; try to rely most on the expressions and feelings, parents hardly say if they need anything. If you read their feelings you can quickly make them happy.
If you are away be connected with them through social networking sites: yes, be connected with your parents through twitter, facebook, orkut, and my-space etc.
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There are lots of things that we can do to make our parents happy, but the real happiness of parents is in our happiness. If we do good things in life and feel happy they also feel happy, that’s what they need the most.
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Good topic! I would just add another point about being true to yourself. Only then, parents would trust you. It is important to build a relationship of trust.
Yes, correct! Trust is the base of relationship — when it is missing, most of the things are missing :)
I love my momma and im trying to earn her trust but how?