You need not to please any person for this. If this would happen, all the good people would have become “mad” in pleasing bad people (who always look for it).

Some people touch our heart, but we never explicitly say it, we know within. And those people do nothing to make us happy, they are on their path… but, they touch our heart. The reasons are below, the same reason (that I found) if we apply in our lives, we can also touch the heart of other people.

Reframing & transformation

Re-frame means to re-build again to any talk or to any thought or to any idea in a way that it looks constructive and leaves positive impact on others. And, some people are so expert in re-framing, you get soothing and healing effects from them. This is an art, grows when we have knowledge and understanding to see things from wider perspectives. When, something is reframed, transformation in others is provoked.

Positive & realistic touch

It comes when we are grounded, live in reality and practicality of life….for instance, the authors Paulo Coelho and Eckhart Tolle (they are famous authors), their talks look down to the earth, whatever they speak (in their books), you can feel a sense of reality – like, they are speaking from their souls. The combo of positivity and reality is deadly; you can see lot of people, who talk positive, but no touch of reality, that’s why they are unable to make any long term impact on others. Try to have these both qualities, and you will find, you are touching other’s heart.

Purity of eyes and breaths

Both of them do not lie; eyes and breath, both make a substantial difference between a pure and impure person. Relaxed eyes and breaths leave profound impacts. The purity at emotional and at thought level is essential to to make the eyes and breath relaxed. The great examples are children. When, emotions and thoughts are disturbed, eyes and breath also get disturbed, and no chance to win other’s heart. For bringing up this quality, you can practice meditation, or other therapy.