There are three kinds of enemies: one, who hurt physically; second, who hurt monetarily; third, who hurt emotionally & mentally. And, none of them are good, enemies are never good. People run after Tantriks (who are supposed to play with black energies), and Deities (or other semi-God), to suppress, and to win over enemies, but it never works, their enemies go to Tantriks and Deities too, and a never ending fight starts. But, the solution is simple, no need to suppress enemies.

Before coming to solution, have a look to some issues, maybe, people hardly notice about them (maybe, you know already). Anyway, I would like you to consider enemies as negative energies, and negative energies cause to the followings:

• Energy blockage: unresolved issues with enemies cause energy blockage and a person feels unhappy. These blockages mainly are on mental and emotional levels.
• Thinking negative: whenever a person thinks about enemies, most of the time, he thinks negative and gets entangled in his own thoughts’ karmas.
• Progress issues: resentments with enemies cause issues in progress, the time, one needs to invest in one’s progress gone waste in enemies.
• Spiritual issues: a spiritual person has no external enemies, in case of spiritual progress, thinking and feeling somebody as enemy is fatal.

Self defense at physical level

Make distances, if you are unable to decide what do with enemies. Distance at mental level is too important than to physical level. But, both are good, at least, you won’t be creating unnecessary karmas.

Mantra & Sadhana to win over enemies

You can read and re-read this paragraph many times. You need to put it in your memory that you can’t win over enemies by suppressing them or by hurting them. There are two things: one is, "think good about enemies," second is, "feel good about enemies." I know, if your enemies have made you cry in tears, it’d be impossible for you – but, there is no other way. Either ruin your whole life in resentments, or transform that negative energy which you’ve stored in thinking and feeling about them, most of the time in your life. "Forgiveness" doesn’t work all the time, when resentment is too great, after forgiving our enemies, soon after we forget that we’ve forgiven them. So, continuous "think good about enemies," and "feel good about enemies" are required.

Why it works?

Whatever we think, its vibrations start spreading in other people and in atmosphere. And, our single thought (of whatever type it may be) creates a world around us, influencing people and atmosphere. If we think good and feel good about enemies – they change, if not, don’t worry; at least, we are safe at our side, and can look straight into their eyes (because, we have no more conspiracy or ill-will for them). And, now, thoughts and memory of our enemies no longer disturb in our life; as well as, we are making our side stronger, when God will do justice at the end of our life.