If we look into the word “unconditional,” un= not, conditional= bondage, dependency, or say loop of “expectation-fulfillment-misery (unfulfilled expectation brings misery).” Being unconditional is nice, but, it is not “external,” as people say, they need unconditional “love,” and “relations.” If you “need,” you are starting from a “condition,” then, how can you remain unconditional? Dig within! One can’t need or expect unconditional things, if one does, then, things become conditional. And, it doesn’t matter how loud the drum you beat to tell you are “unconditional,” but within you, you better know.

The person, who is unconditional, he never claims his un-conditionality to himself and to others, because making claims is also a condition to “prove” something. But, yes, other can say to that person – the source of unconditional things, and then, the real meaning of unconditional comes.

If you want to see un-conditionality, see the Sun & Moon that come and go without conditions. See the flowers that make you happy. See the children, look into their eyes and expressions – without conditions. And, yes see a Buddha that never claims who he is.