Causes of "I love you," which one is yours?

We all know that "love" is never the matter of mind. It is the expression of heart. But, what if, when somebody starts loving you with the mind – not with the heart.

Two ways of the mind

  • When somebody looks lovable.
  • When love is independent.

Third way of the heart

  • When, one is in the state of love.

Two ways of the mind

When somebody looks lovable and s/he draws our attention and we get fall in love with that person. Here, the cause and end of love is that person only, starts from him and ends with him – that person plays a major part; we just like mosquitoes get into the net. This love never satisfies as the mood and behavior of that person (which was looking enticing initially) gets changed.

The second type of love comes when we think we can use the expression "love" as a thing, and it does not come-out from either of the person. It is just an imitation of love; bodies come together but mentally live miles apart.

Third way of the heart

This is the ultimate way of love, where there is no push and pull, no repulsion and attraction – a person lives in the state of love. And his state of love isn’t dependent on anybody, his heart never breaks, he never cries and he gives love to everyone – unconditionally.

Which kind of love you see around these days first, second or third?

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