He wants this, that and those things…and the person who knows his wants, has all the hooks for him, if not, hooks can be created. This is just not for “he” typically, but applicable to all, even for the animals – as far as they have the needs. Here, I’m not differentiating between need, want, desire, expectation and so on. With common sense the single word “need” is enough, if not, it’s also true that want, desire, and expectation, all are lured by the hooks; though the intensity between need and the hook may vary substantially person to person.

You can say, a person can’t live alone, can’t do all the things alone, he needs clothes to wear, food to eat, shelter, education, medicine…doctors and someone to talk with, and needs to fulfill other physical desires where companion is must. It’s true! We need someone or other-one in life, and others need us in return, we also have the hooks for others. And this is what creates the society, exchange of needs and hooks!

But the things is that need should be genuine and should come at the right time, because need attracts the hooks, and surprisingly for a single need there are several hooks. As for a single need there are hundreds of brands and thousands of products; as for a beautiful girl there are hundreds of guys and thousands of promises…you can take lots of example yourself. But there is something interesting, I would like to share: once a girl was needed a job, an executive job, she was an MBA, so she went to give an interview but in exchange of the job she was offered to become the interviewer’s girlfriend; the girl threw both the need and hook at his face, and returned home. This is alarming! But we can’t sell our character, ethics and values and in-front of these things it doesn’t matter how our needs are. In-fact, at the moment, saving herself from that guy was “the need of prime importance,” and for it the need of job just disappeared and its hook with it… If we go little more into this, the girl herself was the hook as she was bold enough to defend herself, and it drew her out of adverse situation – otherwise, to whom she’d seek help would work as a hook for her. So, the hook saves the life as well…but it totally depends upon how genuine our need is and when it comes.