Everyone of-course makes his or her destiny – knowingly or unknowingly. The difference is just that with knowingly one erases the internal barriers of success and with unknowingly one may not erase the internal barriers of success. Making destiny is not something – outside, stuff. It is just to clear the roadblocks, for the simple reason what is inside appears outside.

Things that one writes for erasing internal barriers are usually affirmations for counter-balancing unfruitful mental habits. You can write your affirmations the way you want but the following understanding is advised:

• You can’t control others you can just erase your internal barriers.
• Whatever you write should be in present tense only. Past creates the “tension,” and future creates the “anxiety.” The comfort only comes with the “present.” And the most important: all the changes happen in present only.
• Universe doesn’t understand the word “not.” The statement “I am not a bad girl” will be taken as “I am a bad girl.” So better write: “I am a good girl.”
• Write in highly positive sense with certainty, don’t use: if, but, however, although and other conditional loops.
• Make simpler, shorter and clearer sentences. For depth, you can decorate them with audio, visual or with kinesthetic feelings.
• Whatever affirmations you have written, keep them in focus until the unfruitful mental habits are changed.

This  sounds like — the world is not worth living. Those statistics and notes are really alarming! If we leave the natural calamities, for the rest — we are responsible. The whole humanity is responsible!

Watch the video too.

At this day, usually 8 days before Diwali, Goddess Ahoi is worshipped for giving long life to children. Where a mother does fast, worships and prays to Her for giving long life to children.

There are three stories behind it, the one I’m sharing with you:

After many years of marriage, the husband and wife weren’t getting any child survive to life, unusual death of each child caused them intense pain and discomfort. So one day, they left everything and proceeded to forest and sat near a river — for fast unto death. At the seventh day, they heard a voice telling them to worship Goddess Ahoi for getting children and their long life as well. They came back and did the same, the Goddess Ahoi herself appeared and fulfilled their wishes. Since then this Ahoi festival is celebrated.

In fact, every festival connects the bond, whether it is between neighbors (Diwali and Holi), sister and brother (Raksha Bandhan), husband and wife (Karva Chauth), and mother and children (Ahoi Astami). It’s good to celebrate each festival to regain the strength!

[Resolved Question] Can I tell by the smell of my husband’s gas if  he has been cheating?

[Resolved Question] How do I convince my wife to allow the maid to sleep us at night?

[Open Question] I’m having twins. Can I abort just one of the babies?

[Resolved Question] Why do people always look like foods to me?! XD?!?

[Resolved Question] Why do people call me a chode at work?

[Resolved Question] How long can a little girl hold her breath?

[Undecided Question] Can I breastfeed my husband?

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These types of questions people do ask at Yahoo… don’t getting laughing? You just got few questions here; get more question and answer session.

Something alarming!

350 unmarried men over 35 didn’t get their life partner. Hopefully, they didn’t choose celibacy or follow some religious group where celibacy is just only the life, worth living.

There are many alarming factors which produce this type of situation:

- Lack of education + Unemployment

- Hard-wired social conditioning, where inter-caste marriage is considered a crime, big one.

- The dowry, and thinking low about feminine.

And the biggest alarming factor is: “Not to think about change.”

This is a small bone, nearly perfect model of a person, called Atma-Ram — having arms, legs, head and other parts of the body. Mostly said to have found after the cremation process.

Though, not the everyone knows about it and it is left unacknowledged. It relates me with the story where people keep the small statues of their parents and grandparents — somewhat like the movie Gladiator if you have seen it. Though in some religions, it is not considered auspicious to keep the things of a passed-away person, as it forces the soul to remain attached and their journey to other plane gets interrupted.

This is not interesting, but threatening. When people don’t have senses, and think what they are doing is right and their self-referral quality is just ego based. In-fact everyone has the problem high or low, and the problems of husband and wife relationship are too sensitive. Others listen for fun, not for the solution. It’s okay to talk with 1 or 2 the most reliable and understood friends but to a certain limit or to take professional council, but talking problem with everyone is like publishing in the newspaper. Chanakaya said right “Don’t tell your secrets to others, they will destroy you.” The matter between husband and wife when disclosed to everyone ruins the relationship. This is serious matter, each of the life partner should be careful about this, otherwise they not only ruin the relationship but ruin the lives of their children too.

There are two things “known” and “unknown,” or say “certain” and “uncertain.” The attachment which is known and certain, keeps the mind busy — the mind runs, wins and loses; these things keep on rotating one by one, sometimes we laugh and sometimes we cry. But. One thing is certain — mind is busy, tight, fixed with the knot; even it is the pleasure, the pleasure of the whole world, the mind feels suffocated. As the lovers say they need room even they love each other too much. The known creates the prison, it bounds, it’s okay to have it when we need it, but not every-time.

The detachment which is unknown and uncertain — never keeps the mind busy. And when the mind isn’t busy, the source, the self — there “is.” And all the possibilities in this fertile land. The fact is: the attachment doesn’t make us happy, but the detachment does — the things which can make our mind thoughtless, make us happy. As in pure love, there is detachment — there is silence, that’s why it is called unconditional.

He offers great spiritual teaching in this video, must watch for everyone.