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You need not to please any person for this. If this would happen, all the good people would have become “mad” in pleasing bad people (who always look for it).
Some people touch our heart, but we never explicitly say it, we know within. And those people do nothing to make us happy, they are on their path… but, they touch our heart. The reasons are below, the same reason (that I found) if we apply in our lives, we can also touch the heart of other people.
Reframing & transformation
Re-frame means to re-build again to any talk or to any thought or to any idea in a way that it looks constructive and leaves positive impact on others. And, some people are so expert in re-framing, you get soothing and healing effects from them. This is an art, grows when we have knowledge and understanding to see things from wider perspectives. When, something is reframed, transformation in others is provoked.
Sometimes only one weakness looks so terrible, people leave each other; there are certain things to care about, not only in love relationship, but in every relationship. The base of every relationship starts from common-sense and understanding for certain things, when we forget those things –relationship suffers.
There are four things, that I suggest this time, they may look trivial but have greater importance. To live with honesty & truth, everyone knows, but things are needed more than that. Have a look and think if you or your partner (not exactly lover but other people also) are lacking them.
Nobody likes the weaker person: people need growth in life and with a weaker person it’s hard to grow and settle also, even compromises never work all the time. Everyone likes other person to become like oneself (call it dominance or manipulation, the stronger soul wins). If you have weakness you lose your marks, try to overcome your weakness first.
This article isn’t for married people. All married relationships are great :). Whatever happened … is happened, be positive! And, I’m not relationship expert either. This article is for those, who are in relationship, but aren’t married.
If you are in a relationship, or have broken relationship; please, don’t take “heavy breaths” nothing is unusual here. If you find something unusual, you can let me know.
Accept the facts
you came in wrong relationship because…
- You were wrong also; else, there was no other way to get into wrong relationship. Maybe, you were driven by emotions, or hormones, or by any other influence; you better know.
- You wanted some favor and that wasn’t possible otherwise.
- You just believed in words, you never check the details (how unpractical you were?).
- Your faith was blind, you were a fool.
How to break?
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So, we don’t know “how to be friends naturally?” Good! Actually, people also forget how to take breath naturally? We are forgetting lot of things day-by-day, but we need fast miracles, perfect people and fast results – without upgrading our mind. Yet, there are flood of books for mind-power – again, claim for some miracle in life. But, you don’t worry; you’ll learn “how to be a girlfriend as fast as possible?” Read More »
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A beautiful family: an awesome daughter, a brilliant wife and a smart husband. But… but, the father has an eye over his daughter’s friend; daughter on neighboring guy; wife on her friend. It is the eye which ends at physical indulgence and emotional disturbance. A beautiful screen-play with unique characters and wonderful oppositions and fights, but it tells something, “Why good family is spoiled?” The reasons is not given in the movie (American beauty), though it forces to think, “Why it happens?” Everything is “okay” and still nothing is working out. Read More »
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“I love you,” may be, well understood to you (I can’t say). “Love” is the most powerful word of any dictionary; when, unexpectedly someone says “I Love You” – other falls flat. It’s not due to someone; it’s just due to phrase itself. And an err… Err of finding love in other. It can’t be sought; it’s more like an autonomous breath or heart-beats. It can’t be controlled and directed, it’s multi-dimensional – floating to each side. Read More »
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This is (Dil To Pagal Hai) Hindi phrase for – heart is mad. It is, for those who think and understand only with heart. I’m not writing here, love-letter; but I’m just trying to understand this little creature, which is small – yet, too powerful. It can make you cry like hell, or can make you feel like God. Read More »
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It is three step process and very easy to do.
If you do as the technique says, you will be able to transform your intense emotions.
When emotions are intense, our whole body and mind both are charged with that, and we start flowing where our emotional-charge leads us to. And it ends with unwanted results. The three step process to transform emotions is very simple. Initially, it may look like not working or may look hard to do – but if you do it, not only you would able to transform emotions but also you can improve your consciousness level. Read More »
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At certain age most of the people start dreaming and searching for life partner. Well, searching for superior things or people is natural.
One truth to understand is that, any person can’t get more than s/he deserves. If you see big dreams, it is better to increase your deserving qualities.
I would like to suggest following things to ponder upon to the people who find short cut ways to attract life partner –
1. Role of Karma, it’s undeniable
If you are able to raise the common conscious level of any relationship, it would be healed.
Here are three simple steps – Read More »