Is it really hard to find a perfect soul-mate? Or is it, that you’ll see a blue light (that Paulo Coelho mentioned in Brida) at his or her shoulder and your soul-mate will see at yours? And eyes and hearts will be connected transforming and satisfying each other — understanding the lost part of one’s soul has now met. Or is it, that you’ll never see a blue light and pass your life with someone who isn’t your soul-mate?

With what you see the sign of your soul-mate — is it mind and its reason, is it feelings and emotions, is it attraction and infatuation, or is it instincts? or is it intuition? Or is it, just that you don’t know when it is going to happen!

Sometimes we find our soul-mate, right in-front of us, connected by some invisible chords that start singing when eyes meet but mind drags us away, and we hardly or never see that person in our lives. As if we’ve put away something very precious, that the heart tells us, but mind says, “Forget you fool!”

Existentially-oneness, I think is the first sign of a soul-mate, existentially-trust, is a another sign. But when the consciousness isn’t clean & clear, the signs may blur, and no way to see one’s own reflection in somebody’s eyes.

1. Once two people came to my door-steps and asked for chanda (donation), as I gave them some rupees — they started telling about me. I don’t know if they were reading my mind or using some other tricks, but whatever they told me, they were correct.

2. A year back I went to a man, he asked me to dip my hand in a pot of water, wherein a blank piece of paper was also there in the water, and asked me to chant a mantra with him — as soon as the mantra was finished, he showed that paper to me, the things came written in that, to my surprise, I was facing those things. And he also proposed a solution.

3. There are some iron sticks wherein some Arabic words are engraved, and these sticks (as I knew then) are called Arbi, if they have some other name I don’t know that. When I went to a man, his fingers were hovering over those sticks, left to right and right to left; he just asked me what the problem I had, and what the history he told me, it was correct.

4. This time this man used some numbers, 0 to 8, he asked my date of birth, and made some calculation — though he wasn’t 100% correct, but I’m sure he was 60%. He also mixed some other technique like drawing something in his calculation.

5. Also I met few people who worship some deity, and while channelling to that deity — they were able to tell things about my past.

From two eminent gurus I knew that (1) telling past is a mental trick and, (2) telling past comes easy when one is able to control a wandering spirit and asks him things about anybody’s past.

Whatever it is, these things don’t help in improving consciousness. It’s said an enlightened being can know anything about anybody’s past (though they never show it off ) — they see the past because they’re concerned with how to wipe out the load of bad karmas, so that a person could shine in his or her brilliance.