It is the emotion where a person lands after being hurt or insulted. And this emotion is one of the crucial factors to check the conscious level of a spiritual person, or other entity.
As far as when ego exists the fall-back emotions are dangerous, usually with the strategies of fight and revenge … anger and jealousy … and, depression and curse.
When, there is no ego, the fall-back emotions are usually the type of love and compassion — as Jesus Christ had.
A car hit a person, he got injured, he was a beggar looking person…perhaps no money to treat the injury; he asked the car owner for some money – he was insulted again. The beggar closed his eyes and in deep agony cursed the man that man got down and fell dead.
I don’t know how much true this story is, this came to me through a lot of people, and I think some ingredients might be changed, and I don’t know the place, the person, the location and when it happened, I just caught this story to discuss something.
Our feelings and emotions have immense power, and we can use them to curse somebody or to bless somebody – and it works. Incase when we hurt a person intentionally with no reason at all (may be for fun) the consequences maybe anything, if he is a bad man, whole life he will curse you (if luckily a good man, he will forgive you).
It doesn’t mean you get blackmailed like a kind woman , she used to give money and things to saint looking fraud people, who used to come at her door-steps, when I asked her why she does so, she replied she is afraid of curse. Well, this is totally manipulating, someday, this woman might curse the people (maybe slightly) who make her learned this false teaching, and due to this, she got robbed most of the time.
There are lots of violent foods that we keep on taking, and they are more dangerous than the non-vegetarian foods.
They are:
The food for heart.
The food for mind.
One type of food is emotions and second type of food is thoughts. If they are uncontrolled – vegetarian food also can’t save us; we are bound to get disturbed from tail to head.
They are energies:
Emotions and thoughts are energies and if they are positive, pure and in control – they help substantially in meditation.
But, most of the time, we don’t care about what we are feeling and what we are thinking. Because, we think we are "vegetarian," read scripture and follow a Guru, and everything will be good with us, it can’t! Unless, the emotions and thoughts don’t become proper. Apart from downfall of the character, all the mental and physical diseases happen just due to uncontrolled thoughts and emotions. Avadhoot Baba Shivananda of Shiv Yog says "Emotions of fear affects the lungs and stomach, anger affects the heart and resentment effects the kidneys" – these are just example of few. The real harms uncontrolled thoughts and emotions do is, they never let us improve our conscious level, and we remain kind of animal, whole life.
We all know that "love" is never the matter of mind. It is the expression of heart. But, what if, when somebody starts loving you with the mind – not with the heart.
Two ways of the mind
Third way of the heart
Two ways of the mind
When somebody looks lovable and s/he draws our attention and we get fall in love with that person. Here, the cause and end of love is that person only, starts from him and ends with him – that person plays a major part; we just like mosquitoes get into the net. This love never satisfies as the mood and behavior of that person (which was looking enticing initially) gets changed.
The second type of love comes when we think we can use the expression "love" as a thing, and it does not come-out from either of the person. It is just an imitation of love; bodies come together but mentally live miles apart.
Third way of the heart
Image by: Cornel & Maria Duma
A man, whole life he suffered, he complained and condemned everything; later on he died.
And appeared in front of God, and told he did injustice with him, always gave him all the sufferings and problems and started crying.
Image by: Jenna Carver (licence)
It is three step process and very easy to do.
If you do as the technique says, you will be able to transform your intense emotions.
When emotions are intense, our whole body and mind both are charged with that, and we start flowing where our emotional-charge leads us to. And it ends with unwanted results. The three step process to transform emotions is very simple. Initially, it may look like not working or may look hard to do – but if you do it, not only you would able to transform emotions but also you can improve your consciousness level. Read More »
Do you know how to see self image without a mirror?
It is seen with closed eyes, and this is only the real image.
All the mirror images we see are just an illusion; they do not tell us our reality. The real image is what when we see with closed eyes.
Whatever we think about ourselves it starts taking a form and become printed in our memory. And this image matters a lot, it determines the level of self esteem, it determines how much we love ourselves and how much value and regard we have in our own eyes. Read More »
Repetitive … Recurring … Obsessive … Anxious … Negative … Bad … and on and on
Ufff, they are – the thoughts. But, you can control them!
Want to do that?
I’ll not talk about karma but I can suggest you one simple thing that will help you immensely in controlling thoughts.
That is – Read More »
I have seen some people, even if you abuse them, they smile; more abuse … they’ll more smile even will laugh at you.
They have controlled their emotions; they know how energy works … and they are called wise!
It is simple to control emotions; no affirmations, no resolutions are needed – just understanding is enough.
Emotions are energy
Whenever our emotions are low, we feel enervated and whenever our emotions are pleasant, we feel energetic. Emotions are energy waves; the more emotional you are the more energy waves you will emit. Shallow emotions have shallow energy waves and deep emotions have powerful energy waves. Read More »
Most of the time, we unknowingly create physical problems thru unbalanced emotions and life style. And keep on raising medical bills and complain for moon & stars. In fact, we are creator of our own suffering also. There is very simple science of materialization: think anything and associate your emotions with it and, it will start materializing. So, careful you must be! Take control of your emotions and thoughts and create what you want. Read More »